In this heartfelt reflection, Edua Lena shares her transformative experience at a Christy Brown x McMullen private dinner, where women gathered to explore who they are beyond their work roles. Edua discusses the importance of community, self-care, and the power of connection, especially among Black women. She opens up about her journey from neglecting self-care to making it a central part of her life, offering insights on how to be more intentional in balancing personal growth with professional demands. This piece invites readers to reflect on where they’ve been “lazy” in their self-care and to take action in nurturing themselves.